But really I would rather be at home all by myselfSame, Alessia,same. Stop complaining about what your boyfriend isn't doing and take the initiatives yourself. For example, you want him to dress up more stylishly? Go to his closet and arrange outfits. Want to go out more? Set up the dates. It's about asserting what you want, to give him a clue. This disconnect between he two of you isn't personal, it's just that he can be a bit of an airhead.ContentView Iframe URLCheck out Elle in our May 2013 issue >> Polis said he is also excited about the other LGBTQ midterm victories that happened across the country on November 6. (and let's be real, who ISN't a fan of that show), sat down with Ellen on an episode ofThe Ellen Showwhereshe received the surpriseof a lifetime.