Serena Williams Announced Her Engagement ON REDDITCheck This Out: and the entire incident from start to finish is pretty amazing. It was singing for me. That’s my love. I’m an artist. I fell in love with singing, and through singing, I learned how to write songs. Anything you’re consistent with and that you do all the time, you’re gonna reap benefits off it at one point. You’re not gonna get worse! That point where Rihanna came in, that whole point — and I don’t want to say necessarily that person, because I’d written songs for a bunch of different people prior to that point — but once I’d reached that point, I’d already been doing it for 19 years every day. "Don’t call me gay please!! I’m a man!!! Who I love is my private life!"