providing “actionable steps schools can take” has been disseminated to approximately 40,000 public school districts and private schools since its release in July 2018. It also describes which school settings appear more prone to shootings and violence. All but two of the attacks happened at a public school and nearly three-fourths at a high school. Over half of the incidents also occurred at schools with fewer than 1,000 students, and the majority of those included in the study had physical security measures in place, most of which included a school resource officer. “It’s one thing to have sympathy, but it’s another thing to have empathy, and a lot of people can’t have empathy because they just can’t relate. It does get very lonely. They don’t understand how to talk to you in a way that won’t make you feel offended or in a way that isn’t triggering. Be aware. Let survivors know: ‘These are your options.’ It varies for so many different survivors. Activists should go to them, ask them what they’re comfortable with and what they prefer. It really comes down to the individual. Having that conversation with that person is the biggest thing.”Haley NYE in Cabo San Lucas with Selena Gomez, and in posts to his Instagam stories we got a brief look at his sunny surroundings. Along with pictures of some art he was working on, the artist also shared a picture with friends.17.) Sarah Hyland “I was one of those parents whose kids went to one of those schools, who lived in one of those communities, who thought it could never happen here,” Petty said. “And then it did.”Want more fromTeen Vogue? Check this out: